It is also a crime for a person to be simple and calm. It is true that you cannot be nice with everyone. Sometimes resistance is also necessary. Because the flow of electric current also happens more easily in the same circuit, whose resistance is relatively less as compared to other circuits. So don’t make yourself so cheap that just anyone can come and play.
Every person likes to be praised. There is no one in the world who is hurt by praise, even if the praise is false. But when someone speaks ill of you and finds faults in you, then you feel bad and feel sad. If you are capable of giving him a befitting reply, you do so and if not, you abuse him in your mind. But do you know that there should be some people in your life who can show you your shortcomings. The person who finds faults in you in every conversation can be not only your enemy but also your friend. The person who shows you the mirror just shows you the true picture of you, it does not matter whether he is your friend or your enemy. Sometimes we are unable to recognize our shortcomings and sometimes we do not even feel that we have any shortcomings. You would benefit from such a person that you would not have to look for your shortcomings. Rather, there is someone who is doing this work for you himself. This will also save your energy, which you can use in carving yourself. But there are some people who keep finding faults in you. Their words have no basis. But never ignore their words either. His words may also be meaningful. If there is even a little truth in what they say then you will get another chance to improve yourself and if not then your enthusiasm will increase, because people only cross the path of those who are moving forward on the path of progress. Therefore, consider it a blessing to have such people who can show you a mirror and help you in grooming you and at the same time can help you become the best of the best.
When everything is going well or better, then everyone supports you, but whenever you are in trouble, especially when your financial condition is bad, then in such a situation you are alone. Friends and your family and sometimes not even that. The bitter truth is that no one provides support in times of trouble. But everyone salutes the rising sun. When you are going through bad times, you realize what you have earned in your life. Meaning whether there is someone who stands shoulder to shoulder with you in trouble or not. If you have someone like that then he is the true income of your life. But if not, then either your relations were not good with your loved ones or you have made a mistake in recognizing people. It is rightly said that bad times are a mirror which shows everyone’s truth. So don’t hate it and don’t be upset because it will make you stronger and teach you to choose the right people in your life.